Growing up I was always a very strong masculine energy- the energy that loves being in control and thrives on getting results. It’s all about efficiency and getting things done. My Engineering career emphasized this part of me even more. 

But at my core, I have very feminine energy. Even though I love having structure, doing lists, doing and being very goal driven. In a way, I saw the feminine energy as vulnerable and weak, so I emphasised my masculine energy.

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I always loved pretty things, clothes and makeup. But as a teenager I was judged as superficial for this part of me, so I made it wrong. I knew I was an intelligent woman of substance, so in order to be taken seriously, I felt I should diminish my feminine, soft side.

Side note: I look very feminine, but naturally, I tend to operate from a very masculine energy.

The feminine energy is in flow, connected, grounded and it is the energy that allows us to receive. Receive love, money, help, support etc…

It’s the energy that allows good things to come into our life.

If you block this energy you are going to have to work harder to achieve the things you want. This is regardless of whether you are a woman or a man. It applies to all of us.

You can access the feminine energy by starting your days by doing some meditation, doing yoga, journaling, exercising, dancing, painting, you get the idea.

Anything that allows you to stop and get grounded in the present. 

‘It is not about what you do it’s all about how you feel’ says Abraham Hicks. The energy behind the things you do is everything!! When you feel happy and aligned even small actions will create amazing results 

That is why accessing the feminine energy before you take action is so important and will allow you to achieve the results you want. Because you will be in alignment with your actions.

I explain how to balance both energies in so much more detail at my Presence Formula workshop. This concept is the foundation for creating a new level of leadership and presence. 

If you want some guidance on how to get yourself more in flow and alignment, you can download my FREE Epic day checklist here

And if you are in Perth, make sure you don’t miss out on the LAST 2 SPOTS to attend my Presence Formula Workshop

Make this week an amazing one! 

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Alba Gomez is an image and personal brand coach, keynote speaker, first impressions specialist and professional image consultant.

Born in Colombia and based in Australia, she travels nationally and internationally for speaking, executive coaching, consulting and training.

Alba works with individuals and small groups right through to large corporations. She brings her client’s image into line with their personal and professional roles, giving them the clarity and confidence to look and feel their best. Alba uses a unique, results-orientated approach, drawing on her 14 years of experience with systems and processes as an engineer.